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About Phil Good

My four children have always said to my wife Eileen and I, one thing we have always taught them is to, “Never Give Up!”

Please excuse me as quite often I talk as if Eileen and I are one person, that we talk about each other in the same breath of air if you like, so joined at the hip we are. And so, it is!

We have been happily married for forty-seven wonderful years, and as with any relationship it has been fraught with challenges all designed to test our proclaimed unconditional love for one another.

Life for us though did not start out with the promise of a lifelong amazing marriage, with both sets of parents involved in dysfunctional relationships, marred by volatility, heated arguments, put downs and violence.

So why would I, Phil Good at 71 years of age want to be a Relationship Coach committed to helping couples build or rebuild a loving and happy relationship? Why not just retire and live out my life happily with Eileen.

Sure, that would be easy street, and we are happy and do enjoy a loving life together. But the difference is I care about couples being happy and loving each other. And I would love nothing more than to help other couples change, get out of their stuck states and live happily ever after.

The reason I care so much is because I witnessed my parents stay together in misery for 53 years, as did Eileen’s parents but for less time due to cancer.

It would give me the greatest satisfaction to help you change, live in peace, love and happiness, for your relationship, your children and future generations.

Phil Good - Relationship Counsellor

Out with the old…

Standard Relationship therapy and models today are mostly ineffective and cost you time, money, and emotional heartache. If you’ve been to one of these sessions, I feel for you. The frustration of endlessly talking about your problems week on week going around primarily in circles does not create any change.

This often leads to blame, resentment, disconnection and in the end a separation or divorce. This is backed up by statistics that 70% of people who seek out a therapist that focuses primarily on problem solving end up separating or divorced anyway.

Time for something new…

But there is a radically profound and groundbreaking solution to the standard talk therapy model.

That is a solution based 3 principles model. This allows couples that are in a broken relationship transition to one that is thriving in a very short time. Imagine going from the feelings of rejection, anger, abonnement and loss to one of confidence, connection, passion, intimacy and supportive in 30 days or less?

Solution-Based Approach

Targeted strategies to resolve conflicts and strengthen your bond.

Goal-Oriented

Our solution-based therapy focuses on your desired outcomes rather than dwelling on past issues. We identify your goals and create a clear, actionable plan to achieve them.

Strengths-Based

We help you recognize and utilize your inherent strengths and resources to overcome challenges and build a stronger relationship.

Brief and Efficient

Designed to be time-efficient, solution-based therapy often produces quick and tangible results, helping you see progress in just a few sessions.

Collaborative Approach

You and your partner actively participate in the therapy process, working together to find solutions and enhance your connection.

Emotional Intelligence Coaching

Develop the skills to understand and manage emotions for a healthier relationship.

Self-Awareness

Develop a deeper understanding of your own emotions, triggers, and responses to improve your relationship dynamics.

Empathy

Learn to empathize with your partner’s feelings and perspectives, fostering greater compassion and understanding.

Emotional Regulation

Gain techniques to manage and express your emotions healthily and constructively.

Relationship Management

Enhance your ability to navigate conflicts and maintain a positive, supportive relationship environment.

Communication Mastery

Learn effective communication techniques to improve understanding and connection.

Active Listening

Master the art of active listening to ensure your partner feels heard and valued.

Effective Expression

Learn how to express your thoughts and feelings clearly and respectfully, avoiding misunderstandings.

Conflict Resolution

Acquire skills to resolve disagreements peacefully and constructively, strengthening your bond.

Non-Verbal Communication

Understand the importance of body language, tone, and other non-verbal cues in effective communication.

3 Principles Approach

Discover the profound insights of Sydney Banks to create lasting change.

Understanding Thought

Recognize how your thoughts shape your perception of reality and influence your emotions and behaviours.

Consciousness Awareness

Develop an awareness of your state of mind and its impact on your relationship. Learn to shift your consciousness to a more positive and constructive state.

Mind Insight

Tap into your innate wisdom and clarity, allowing you to navigate relationship challenges with greater ease and confidence.

Transformative Impact

Experience profound shifts in your relationship dynamics as you gain a deeper understanding of the 3 Principles and apply them in your daily life.

Customized Relationship Plans

Personalized Assessments

We begin with a thorough assessment of your relationship’s unique strengths and challenges.

Tailored Strategies

Based on the assessment, we create a customized plan that addresses your specific needs and goals.

Ongoing Support

Receive continuous support and guidance throughout your journey, ensuring you stay on track and achieve lasting results.

Holistic Approach

Our coaching encompasses all aspects of your relationship, from emotional and psychological to practical and logistical, providing comprehensive support for your growth.

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